I have long held that certain geographic connects trump more politically correct or emphasized designations. For example, I hold that being a Midwesterner from a small to medium sized town or suburb compared to someone from an urban center on either coast is a much bigger cultural hrudle than race.
When I lived in the Washington, DC area – Hyattsville, Maryland to be exact – it was an almost overwhelmingly African-American community; the mailman called us “the white couple.” One of our neighbors was from Wisconsin and we hit it off right away. Having both grown up in the Midwest or North (Michigan for me and Minnesota for my wife) we could instantly relate to and communicate about her childhood.
In contrast her own husband was from inner city DC and it wasn’t quite as easy to connect. In fact, she shared with us that there were significant cultural barriers that she had to adjust to in her relationship with him and his family. We enjoyed his company but there is a divide between inner city or urban folks and rural/suburban Midwesterners.
The reason for all this sociological musing is that Wisconsin is the setting for Jesse Lee Kercheval’s collection of linked stories The Alice Stories (Prairie Schooner Book Prize in Fiction) and it made me think back to these ideas and experiences.
Set largely in Wisconsin, and featuring a central character from Florida who finds herself settling down there, it had a tone or sense that I could relate to. Not that I don’t enjoy some of it, but it seems much contemporary literary fiction takes place in a setting outside of my day to day life. Reading stories that hit closer to home makes for interesting reading and a nice change of pace.
A more in-depth discussion follows after the jump.
The human ego hates a genuinely new experience. It hates to change and is preoccupied with control. We prefer ideas. We can do anything we want with a new idea, including agreeing with it too quickly. But a genuinely new experience does something with you! It leaves you out of control for a while and forces you to re-access your terrain, find new emotions, and realign your life coordinates. It is often a bit of a humiliation, because it upsets your old coordinates. We prefer to stay inside our small comfort zones and actually avoid any genuinely new experiences. The ego almost does not allow them to happen.